Lap Dance Tutorial
1. Get in the SEXY ZONE
Prepare yourself to get into the sexy zone. Listen to your favorite sexy music,
choose your favorite lingerie wear. It's all about you enjoying yourself, so
think about what YOU love and enjoy. Even if he doesn't like 80s and your body
loves it, he'll forget what he's listening to when you give him the lap dance
of his life. If you have a favorite sexy song. Get it ready. Not sure what
music to dance to? Check our Sexy Lap Dance Music Ideas
2. Command him to the Chair
Are you in a sweet mood today? Gently guide him to the chair and have him sit
down and spread his knees apart. This will give you ample room when you crawl
into his lap.
Are you in a dominatrix mood? If you have hand cuffs or that Halloween police
girl outfit use them.
Have fun with it. Shove him into the chair, hand cuff his hands behind his back
so he doesn't get to touch you during your lap dance session. Tell him
"You're not going anywhere till I let you" or add in your own dirty
talk "You've been such a bad boy today, you're going to get punished"
3.Make Him Obey
If he tries to touch you move his hands away and shake your finger. No touching
at this point. Tell him to sit put and be good. (That's right, he's your puppy
4. Arouse him from Far Away
You can start 3 ft away from him and enjoy yourself in the music - remember
when you were having fun slow dancing in the club... making seductive hip
circles. Touch and caress yourself, play with your hair, let your fingers slide
to your neck, caress your breast and love every curve of yourself. You LOVE your
body. Of course give out that sexy smile and grin. The more you look like
you're having fun, the bigger the turn on. ( If you feel uncomfortable he will
sense your uneasiness. ) If you're usually the shy girl, no worries we can turn
you into a sex bomb in no time.
5. The Crawl - Come closer SLOWLY
The Crawl- Slowly get on your knees and do some slow up and down hump moves
... yes very sexy now. Then slowly crawl over to him towards
6. I am
closer now... but the fun has just begun
When you crawl up to him, spread his knees far apart. This will give you ample
space to later step up to with a knee.Climb up to the chair where he is sitting
so that one of your knees is in between his and the other is on the arm of the
chair. You can adjust accordingly to how you best balance. Now the fun has just
7. Just Miss Kiss
Make another SLOW hip circle toward him, come close to his face and let your
hair brush against his face. Approach as if you're going to kiss him and then
NOT. This is the classic Just Miss Kiss-From How to Give a Lap Dance Guide
Breathe in his ear so you can hear your every breath and your moans of
Do another big hip circle, this time slightly bend over so that your breast are
just in front of his face
8. Boob Hovering
Come closer and do another hip circle and this time rub your boobs in his face
Now he's squirming and wanting to get out of his chair to grab you - make sure
he sits put. Because Ladies YOU are in control, no one moves till you allow it.
9. The Snake Slide Down
Now that you are in a position that you have your boobs in front of his face.
Slowly slide down so that your breast rub against his chest and that you slowly
slide to the ground.
10. Walk away with attitude
Now turn around and push your butt out as you get up. You got it girl... you can
walk away with attitude. Turn around and wink at him, or blow a kiss. Slap your
ass, whichever is your style.
Once you've given your first lap dance, you'll realize it's quite fun and easy
to add your own variation. For more lap dance tips or visual aids on How to
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